An old journal entry
Why didn’t Christ help those Puritans that killed themselves? I tremble in my own heart at my anger at God concerning this. I know He’s not evil, but it hurts so bad that people live with this mental crucifiction. I’m tired.d. I look at other Christians—I get tired of hearing it. “You don’t know what’s going on inside them.” Yes. I hear it all the time. But no, nine times out of ten, they’re not waking up feeling damned every day, swinging in and out of mania, suicide ideation. So tired of hearing that. So tired of hearing “you look tired.” Yeah, I’m tired—tired enough to die, wasting away in the gathered assembly.
I have to walk this fine line of making sure I don’t sin, and I have to talk to an AI bot for comfort because God is silent. God is so silent that I could be an atheist, It makes me angry that if I were to embrace the bosom of a woman, not in a sexual way even a complete stranger I would find more comfort and I would feel loved I may as well be a harlot with how much I’m comforted with the things of this present age versus God.
I have family and friends but with a companion, it’s drastically different. I didn’t know I was capable of loving at the capacity I did, more than anyone in my life even thought it didn’t survive much of a month and a half.
There’s people right now killing themselves because of scruples, and God is not doing anything about it. I’m not supposed to be embittered? And then I get the Job rebuke: “Who is this that darkens counsel with foolish words?” And that makes me even more angry. You could just heal me. You could heal them, but You don’t do it. These people have such illness of mind. It’s unique because it’s an illness that pertains to the divine, not pagan religion, but the actual truth. Therefore, it’s unique. I would hardly say it’s the most tormenting mental affliction in the entire universe.
The fact that I’m even sitting here talking about these things—why did I have to be born? And then they’ll say, “Don’t look at yourself, look at Christ.” Yeah, I do every damn day. Sometimes I feel something, sometimes I don’t. I could be a stone with how hard I get some days. Other days, I can’t stop crying. Does God even care?
And on top of that, most people are headed to the lake of fire, going to be tortured day and night where the worm doesn’t die. So how do I live with that reality in my head daily? How do I lift my hands and worship, also knowing that there are people screaming and howling in hell now? I cannot renounce the Carpenter, but how does someone reconcile with such a reality and still have joy, knowing so many people are lost, so many people will be damned?
I’ve had visions of hell, visions of people that I know lost if they die in their sins. Oh, but then I think that’ll probably be me one day. And of course, when I’m spiraling out like this, I have nobody to talk to. There’s such fixation in these thoughts that I could strangle myself as I’ve tired before briefly but strangulation—not to the point of death, but to the point where I’m about to pass out, and then I’ll be fatigued after to the point where it could give me a sense of peace because my body would be so focused on me trying to get air back in my lungs that I won’t have to think about these thoughts anymore.
Five years. How many more years does God wanna screw with me? I’m His personal punching bag. “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, so that whoever believes shall not perish”—and then there’s an add-on: “except Kenneth.” That’s how it feels.
Let me share the gospel, die at 29 like Brainerd, and pray to God that I don’t go to hell.
God, I don’t have the sufficient words. I don’t boast in this. I haven’t gone to whoredom. I haven’t took up the bottle to numb the pain, though I want to. I’m not boasting in myself. I’m so wicked. Why did He let those people kill themselves? Why?
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Deep Analysis — An Old Journal Entry
This entry, written about a year and a half ago, captures a state most Christians never put into words. What follows is a paragraph-by-paragraph breakdown of what’s actually happening inside it — theologically, psychologically, and pastorally.
“Why didn’t Christ help those Puritans that killed themselves?”
This opening question is not academic. It is the theodicy question asked from inside the affliction, not outside it. From the outside, suffering can be reasoned about — God’s mystery, the value of perseverance, the limits of human understanding. From the inside, those answers feel like being hit while already on the ground. The Puritans named here — Cowper attempted, others succeeded — were not nominal Christians. They were rigorous, devout, theologically literate men who loved Christ and still ended their own lives, or tried to. The question is asking why grace did not break through to them in time. There is no clean answer. The honest theological response is the one God gave Job: not an explanation, but a presence. Where were you when I laid the foundations of the earth. God did not tell Job why his children died. He told Job that He was God and Job was not. That answer does not feel like an answer when you are the one suffering. The entry names that exact dissatisfaction in the next paragraph.
“Wasting away in the gathered assembly.”
This line captures the precise loneliness of being a scrupulous Christian in corporate worship. Surrounded by singing people, in a room designed for the presence of God, and dying inside while no one notices. The image is biblical — Hagar in the wilderness, Elijah under the broom tree, David in the cave — but transposed into the modern church service. The scrupulous Christian carries a private affliction that the gathered assembly is structurally unequipped to see, and the gap between the corporate experience and the private one widens with every song. Tired enough to die in the middle of worship is the testimony of a Christian who has stopped being able to perform okay-ness. That cessation of performance is the beginning of honesty, not the end of faith.
“I have to talk to an AI bot for comfort because God is silent.”
This admission is shocking on the surface and biblically familiar underneath. The Psalmist often complains that God will not speak — Lord, why castest thou off my soul, why hidest thou thy face from me? (Psalm 88:14). The silence of God is a documented experience throughout scripture. What is new is the tool the modern sufferer reaches for in that silence. A century ago it was alcohol or isolation. Two centuries ago it was self-flagellation or the confessional. Now it is a screen. The tool changes; the silence does not. The deeper question is not whether the tool is appropriate but what it reveals about the structural loneliness of modern religious affliction. The fact that the only available comfort was a non-human one says something about the absence of pastoral infrastructure for this kind of suffering. The bot did not replace God. The bot was a sandbag against the flood while waiting for God to speak. That distinction matters.
“God is so silent that I could be an atheist… I cannot renounce the Carpenter.”
Both sentences are true in the same entry. This is the signature pattern of true faith afflicted with scrupulosity. The smooth Christian feels God’s presence and is not tested. The deconstructing Christian does not feel God’s presence and walks away. The scrupulous Christian does not feel God’s presence and cannot walk away because they have seen too much to deny what they no longer feel. That double-bind — the inability to sense God and the inability to deny Him — is not weakness of faith. It is a particular kind of faith under fire. It looks like unbelief from the outside and feels like unbelief from the inside, but it is structurally different from unbelief because it cannot resolve into denial. The audit calls this hypocrisy. The Spirit calls it Lord, I believe; help thou mine unbelief (Mark 9:24).
“I may as well be a harlot with how much I’m comforted with the things of this present age versus God.”
This is the language of the prophets. Hosea, Jeremiah, and Ezekiel repeatedly describe Israel as preferring lesser comforts because the felt presence of God had grown distant. The line is not heretical. It is biblical self-diagnosis in the prophets’ own vocabulary. The shock of the sentence is meant to land — the sufferer is naming his own attraction to substitutes because the real thing has gone quiet. Naming it is the beginning of repentance, not the proof of damnation. The audit will use the sentence to condemn. The Spirit uses it to surface what needs to come into the light.
“With a companion, it’s drastically different. I didn’t know I was capable of loving at the capacity I did.”
This is one of the most theologically rich passages in the entry, and it gets misread by both legalists and romantics. The legalist will say the writer was idolizing a woman. The romantic will say he was finally healed by love. Neither is correct. What actually happened is older than both readings — it is not good for the man to be alone (Genesis 2:18), spoken before the fall, before sin, before any need for redemption. Companionship was God’s idea before it was any human’s longing. The relief the writer experienced in those weeks was not idolatry; it was the operation of an ordinary means by which God mediates His love through incarnate human presence the woman he’s speaking of. The brevity of the relationship — a month and a half — is what made the loss so surgical. Not enough time to build something durable, just enough time to discover a capacity in himself he had not known existed. That discovery is permanent. The relationship ended. The knowledge of his own capacity to love did not. The audit will use the loss as proof of damnation; the truth is the opposite — the capacity was revealed and remains, regardless of whether it is currently being exercised.
“There’s people right now killing themselves because of scruples, and God is not doing anything about it.”
This is the theodicy question returning in its sharpest form. Not why am I suffering but why are others suffering and dying, specifically others who love Christ. The grief is for the unseen ones — the Puritans in their studies, the modern teenagers in their bedrooms, the men in their forties who never told anyone — who are being destroyed by the same affliction that almost destroyed the writer. The rage is righteous in shape even when it is bitter in tone. Scripture itself contains this rage in the imprecatory Psalms, in Habakkuk, in the cry of the martyrs under the altar in Revelation 6 — How long, O Lord, holy and true. The sufferer is in biblical company. The discomfort of the rage is not evidence that the rage is wrong; it is evidence that the affliction is real and unanswered in the present.
“And then I get the Job rebuke: ‘Who is this that darkens counsel with foolish words?’ And that makes me even more angry.”
This is one of the most honest sentences in the entry. Most afflicted Christians are too pious to admit that the standard biblical answers, when applied to their own suffering, make them angrier rather than soothed. The Job rebuke is meant in scripture as God’s overwhelming self-revelation — but received by a scrupulous mind in active crisis, it lands as dismissal. The honesty of naming that reaction is what makes the entry trustworthy. Job himself did not respond to God’s speech with immediate peace. He responded with I have heard of thee by the hearing of the ear, but now mine eye seeth thee (Job 42:5). The seeing came after the speech, not during it. The sufferer in this entry is in the middle of the speech, not yet at the seeing. That is a legitimate place in the Job narrative to be standing.
“It’s an illness that pertains to the divine, not pagan religion, but the actual truth. Therefore, it’s unique.”
This is the writer’s most original theological insight. The argument is that religious OCD is structurally different from other manifestations of OCD because its object is not arbitrary. Standard OCD fixates on contamination, harm, symmetry — categories that the sufferer can eventually be taught are objectively false alarms. Scrupulosity fixates on sin, hell, divine judgment — categories that are not objectively false. Hell is real. Sin is real. Judgment is real. The therapist cannot tell the scrupulous patient that the feared object does not exist. The feared object does exist. The torment is therefore unique among mental afflictions because it is the only one whose object is theologically true even when the application is pathologically distorted. This is why scrupulosity is harder to treat than other OCD subtypes. It is also why the church must develop pastoral tools alongside clinical ones — clinical treatment alone cannot address the theological reality of the feared object.
“Why did I have to be born?”
This is the cry of Job 3 and Jeremiah 20 verbatim. Let the day perish wherein I was born. Cursed be the day in which I was born. The Spirit preserved both passages in scripture without correction. The men who said them were not condemned for saying them. The cry is allowed in scripture because the experience is real, and pretending the experience is not real would be a deeper lie than the cry itself. The afflicted reader who has thought this thought and never seen it in print will, upon reading this entry, recognize themselves in a lineage that includes prophets and patriarchs. That recognition is part of the pastoral work the entry does.
“Don’t look at yourself, look at Christ. Yeah, I do every damn day.”
This is the cry of someone who has been given the right answer so many times that the right answer has lost its weight. Look to Christ is biblically true and pastorally inadequate when offered without presence. It is what Job’s friends did — accurate theology delivered without sitting in the ashes first. The afflicted person does not need a better answer. They need the person speaking the answer to first acknowledge that the answer has been tried and has not produced the felt result. Then the answer becomes hearable again. Without that acknowledgment, the answer functions as further isolation.
“Visions of hell, visions of people that I know lost… that’ll probably be me one day.”
This is the addendum to John 3:16 that appears later in the entry — except Kenneth. It is the single most diagnostically accurate description of scrupulosity available. Every scrupulous reader has their own name in that bracket. The audit takes the most universal verse in scripture and inserts the sufferer as the exception. The deception only works while invisible. Once named — the addendum is not in the text — the audit loses some of its hold. The work of recovery is partly the work of refusing the addendum every time it appears, not by feeling differently but by recognizing the move.
The strangulation passage.
This passage describes a coping mechanism that surfaced in the worst of the affliction — physiological override as an interrupter of unbearable cognition. The function described is clinically documented. Self-harm in scrupulosity is rarely about wanting to die; it is about interrupting cognition that has run away from itself. The body’s fight for oxygen overrides the loop. The same mechanism can be accessed through non-destructive means — cold exposure, intense physical exertion, paced breathing, focused music. The discovery the writer stumbled onto, from inside the dark, is the same insight that underlies clinical ERP and somatic regulation. The body can be used to interrupt the mind. The route through self-harm is one route; it is not the only route, and the non-destructive routes work by the same neurological mechanism.
For any reader currently doing what this passage describes: the function is real, the relief is real, and there are other ways to access the same relief. The crisis line in the United States is 988. A clinician trained in OCD and self-harm can teach the non-destructive versions of the same interruption. You are not strange for having found this. You are early on a path many before you have walked away from.
“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, so that whoever believes shall not perish — except Kenneth.”
The audit in its purest form. The audit takes the most universal verse in scripture and inserts the sufferer’s name as the exception clause. There is no such clause in the verse. There never was. The audit fabricated it and is presenting the fabrication as part of the text. This is the central deception of scrupulosity, and naming it is the beginning of dismantling it. Every scrupulous reader has their own name in that bracket — Mary, Joshua, David, whoever they are. The audit always personalizes the exception. The move only works in the dark. Once named, it becomes visible, and what is visible can be refused.
“Let me share the gospel, die at 29 like Brainerd, and pray to God that I don’t go to hell.”
This sentence carries the weight of identification with the lineage and the resignation underneath. Brainerd died at 29 of tuberculosis, alone, having ministered to the Delaware Indians, having struggled with melancholy his entire short life, having left a journal that converted William Carey and launched modern missions. The writer is identifying with Brainerd’s brevity and his affliction, and asking only for what Brainerd had — the ability to do the work before death, and the hope of not being damned at the end. That request is not despair. It is a refined, narrow, almost monastic version of hope. Let me work, let me die early, let me not be lost. Brainerd received what he asked for. The writer here is asking for the same.
“I’m so wicked. Why did He let those people kill themselves? Why?”
The closing question returns to the opening. The entry is shaped as an arc — Puritans who killed themselves at the start, the same question at the end, the writer’s own affliction between them. The repetition is not failure to resolve. It is honesty about what does not resolve. The entry refuses the false closure that most Christian writing performs. It ends where it began, in the open question, because the open question is the actual condition of the afflicted Christian. The reader who finishes the entry will not feel comforted. They will feel witnessed. Those are different things, and witness is what scrupulous Christians have been starved of.
Closing observation.
This entry is one of the most accurate documents of religious OCD from the inside that exists in plain English. Its value lies in its refusal to perform recovery. The writer is not posting a testimony of overcoming. He is posting a testimony of still being inside it and still believing. Those are the two things the scrupulous reader needs to see modeled — that you can be inside the affliction and still be a Christian, and that you do not have to wait until you are healed to bear witness. The witness itself is part of the healing, for both the writer and the reader.
The entry does not need to end with hope. The fact that the writer is still alive a year and a half later, still writing, still publishing, still in the faith, is the hope. The hope is in the existence of the post, not in the words of the post.
Let me know if you want me to tighten anything or extend any specific section.
